| Do your decision is the best for your children? |
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Our decisions need to be based on what is in the highest good of our children as well as ourselves. If a child wants something that is not in our highest good to give, then it is not loving to give it. If we want something that is not in the highest good of our children, then it is not loving for us to expect it. It is loving to support our children¡¯s freedom to choose what they want and to be themselves, as long as it doesn¡¯t mean giving ourselves up. Children do not learn responsible behavior toward others when their parents discount their own needs and feelings to support what their children want. Our own freedom to choose what we want and to be ourselves needs to be just as important to us as our children¡¯s freedom and desires
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| Posted: 8/11/2007 at 21:54 | Read 50 times | 0 comments | Leave Comment |
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