The Secret Language
Of Child Predators
According to the U.S. Justice Department, there are four million pedophiles in the U.S.
Unfortunately these are just the ones who have already been caught. They also report that one in four girls and one in seven boys will be sexually abused before the age of 18!
Unlock the secret language of child predators:
The simple fact is it’s not exactly known how many people are pedophiles. Researcher’s studying the problem say that child molestation is a major public health problem. If child molestation was the flu, it would be treated like an epidemic……
BELOW ARE THE 8 LESSONS TO THE “SECERET LANGUAGE OF CHILD PREDATORS”
Teach your children how to recognize these signs!
Talk the Talk, Walk the walk:
Watch for adults that seem particularly good at getting right in there with children, acting like a kid and “talking their language”. This could be a sign that an adult is trying to fit into the children’s world and make them extremely comfortable with his company. He’s telling the child “I’m just like you”.
In a report on child abuse called “WHAT SEXUAL OFFENDERS TELL US ABOUT PREVENTION STRATEGIES”, one molester explained that when approaching children he used a smooth voice, very nice and non-threatening. I’d get on their level, and ask how their day was going, what they liked, and I’d listen to them. With older kids in particular you have to use a lot of verbal seduction.
Just A Little Touch:
Watch out for adults that seem to go out of their way to touch children. Especially in inappropriate ways. Many pedophiles attracted to young boys and girls begin their “seduction” by touching the child in very specific ways. For example they will offer to help the child tuck in his or her shirt, only their hands will go unnecessarily deep into the child’s pants or skirt. Pedophiles attracted to older children will offer to give them a back rubs or “accidentally” touch a girls bottom or breasts. Or they might pull a child closer into their crotch area for a hug.
One man admitted he would approach young boys in church, touching them with one hand on the back and one hand on their crotch as he asked then how they were doing in school. He said that only one boy in 20 years pushed his hands away!
You’re Special:
Besides sly touching, pedophiles will often single a child out for special flattery or attention. Be aware of adults who make a lot of eye contact with the child or overtly stare at them. Especially at the genital area. Also take note if an adult buys your child special gifts or gives them money. Pedophiles who “flirt” with children are telling a child “you’re special” ALL KIDS LIKE TO FEEL SPECIAL, so this form of seduction can easily win over many children…
How About A Game?:
Watch out for adults whose homes seem like a kid’s playground! Pedophiles often fill their homes with toys, video games, bikes, and often things that children love. An adult who uses toys and recreation to attract children to his home is saying “I’m just like you and I want to be your best friend.”
I’m The Boss:
Take note of adults who are in positions of authority with children. The vast majority of teachers, scout leaders, baby-sitters, and counselors are truly good people who would not intentionally hurt a child.
Many pedophiles are attracted to careers and activities to get closer to children. When caught these pedophiles admitted to using their authority to overpower children. For example some pedophiles have described how they have told a child it was their responsibility to teach the child how to masturbate.
Nudity and Sex are Natural:
Under the guise of sex education or being “natural” preferential child molesters may “introduce” children to nudity through pictures, videos,
Language or activities such as skinny dipping. They in effect, are telling the children “nudity and sex are no big deal”
Just The Two Of Us!:
If an adult likes to spend a lot of time with your child, especially alone he is saying “ I’ve found my next victim, now leave us alone” In particular, one abuse expert advises parents to watch out for people
Who seem to want to spend even more time with your child than you do…. This is a very clear indication the SOMETHING’S WRONG!!!!!
I’m “ Mr Wonderful”
If someone regularly offers to give a child rides, take the child on outings, baby-sit while the parents take a break, or help the child with homework, he’s effectively saying “ RELAX TRUST ME, I’M HERE TO HELP, I’M JUST AN ALL- AROUND GREAT GUY WHO LOVES KIDS AND I WANT YOU TO SEE ME AS THE GOOD GUY IN YOUR LIFE”
This is an especially common ploy used on single mothers who will see this helpful person as a godsend: But the molester is not motivated to be helpful! He is motivated to appear helpful and to be seen as a great guy. Like all molesters they live a life of pretense, a life of lies. If something seems too good to be true, it probably is.
BECOME A DETECTIVE!
A TRACKER IN THE FOREST WILL SEE EVIDENCE OF 20 ANIMALS, WHERE AS THE AVERAGE PERSON MAY SEE EVIDENCE OF ONLY A FEW. The difference is they are trained to identify the signs that indicate a particular animal was in the vicinity.
Just like there natural detectives, parents today must become detectives of another sort. They must become knowledgeable about the behaviors of child molesters so that they can properly protect their children, THE SIGNS ARE THERE; SEEING THEM IS THE TRICK.
It is not surprising that the average parent doesn’t notice a pedophiles behavior for what it is… Child molesters go to great lengths to control their illicit activity. They even fool their wives!!
TO FIND OUT IF YOU HAVE A PREDATOR LIVING NEAR YOU VISIT THIS SITE AND PLUG IN YOUR ZIP CODE. BY THE WAY HOLD ON TO YOUR HAT YOU WON’T BELIEVE WHAT YOU FIND!!!
This article was copied from My Parentime.com.
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