I receive this one every year, the 1st time was from my sister, who was pregnant at a very young age and gave her daughter to a couple who had wanted a child for many many years. They have been wonderful parents to my niece.
This is for the mothers (and father's who have the roll of mom too) who have sat up all night
with sick toddlers in their arms, wiping up barf laced with Oscar Mayer wieners
and cherry Kool-Aid saying, "It's okay honey, Mommy's here."
Who have sat
in rocking chairs for hours on end soothing crying babies who can't be
comforted.
This is for all the mothers who show up at work with spit-up
in their hair and milk stains on their blouses and diapers in their
purse.
For all the mothers who run carpools and make cookies and
sew Halloween costumes. And all the mothers who DON'T.
This is for the
mothers who gave birth to babies they'll never see. And the mothers who took
those babies and gave them homes.
This is for the mothers whose priceless
art collections are hanging on their refrigerator doors.
And for all the
mothers who froze their buns on metal bleachers at football or soccer games
instead of watching from the warmth of their cars.
And that when their
kids asked, "Did you see me, Mom?" they could say, "Of course, I wouldn't have
missed it for the world," and mean it.
This is for all the mothers who
yell at their kids in the grocery store and swat them in despair when they stomp
their feet and scream for ice cream before dinner. And for all the mothers who
count to ten instead, but realize how child abuse happens.
This is for
all the mothers who sat down with their children and explained all about making
babies. And for all the (grand)mothers who wanted to, but just couldn't find
the words.
This is for all the mothers who go hungry, so their children
can eat.
For all the mothers who read "Goodnight, Moon" twice a night for
a year. And then read it again. "Just one more time."
This is for all
the mothers who taught their children to tie their shoelaces before they started
school. And for all the mothers who opted for Velcro instead.
This is for
all the mothers who teach their sons to cook and their daughters to sink a jump
shot.
This is for every mother whose head turns automatically when
a little voice calls "Mom?" in a crowd, even though they know their
own offspring are at home -- or even away at college ~or have their
own families.
This is for all the mothers who sent their kids to school
with stomach aches, assuring them they'd be just FINE once they got
there,only to get calls from the school nurse an hour later asking them to
please pick them up. Right away.
This is for mothers whose children have
gone astray, who can't find the words to reach them.
For all the
mothers who bite their lips until they bleed when their 14 year olds dye their
hair green.
For all the mothers of the victims of recent school
shootings,
and the mothers of those who did the shooting.
For the
mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of their TVs in
horror, hugging their child who just came home from school, safely.
This
is for all the mothers who taught their children to be peaceful, and now pray
they come home safely from a war.
What makes a good Mother anyway? Is it
patience? Compassion? Broad hips?
The ability to nurse a baby, cook
dinner, and sew a button on a shirt, all at the same time?
Or is it in her heart?
Is it the ache you feel when you watch your
son or daughter disappear down the street, walking to school alone for the very
first time?
The jolt that takes you from sleep to dread, from bed to crib
at 2 A.M. to put your hand on the back of a sleeping baby?
The panic, years later, that comes again at 2 A.M. when you just want to hear
their key in the door and know they are safe again in your home?
Or the
need to flee from wherever you are and hug your child when you hear news of a
fire, a car accident, a child dying?
The emotions of motherhood are
universal and so our thoughts are for young mothers stumbling through diaper
changes and sleep deprivation... And mature mothers learning to let
go.
For working mothers and stay-at-home mothers.
Single mothers
and married mothers.
Mothers with money, mothers without.
This is
for you all. For all of us...
Hang in there. In the end we can only do
the best we can. Tell them every day that we love them. And pray and never stop
being a mom..
"Home is what
catches you when you fall - and we all fall."
Now... I'm off to spend the day at the beach with my girls :)